David
I dont feel you dislike me as I have never done anything to make you dislike me. I fact I know you do love me alot.
I have always looked up to you due to the way you consruct your words here and the stand you make. Many times I have gone in to bat for you when someone else starts to put shit on you. I know I have not met you but still feel over the few years ive come here that we have been able to build a relationship in this unreal world. I am looking forward to one day meeting you in person and untill than will not judge you as a person. I feel that sometimes here you can use your pole position to add weight to a debate but also feel you need to consider being a bit more neutral and offer more support to the process of the debate rather then taking sides. I would to me seam you tend to lean toward backing up those that you have a bond with and althought this is ok it would be nice if you did not side with a person due to your relationship rather then the topic at the time.
Yes we have had some emails towards each other and at no stage till now have I judged you as I dont know you in person. Since I feel I came to you for advice and also to inform you of some goings on the result of that left me feeling as if you were judging me for doing so. From that point on I thought I would give this judging thing a go and for a few weeks I have been watching your patterns within this site in the way you side with people ,the things you say to people and the thing you do for people. you have told me before you treat people here the same and show no favorites and that you do nothing for anyone on equal terms. My problem is that althought you talk the talk you dont always walk the walk when it come down to that.
I am not about to sit here giving examples as I wish not to name the people I feel you are in bed with . I could be wrong and maybe should lay of the Magic mushrooms for a while so i can see clearing.
I DONT FEEL YOU DISLIKE ME AT ALL infact if you knew me in person I am sure you would hug me and tell me how much ya love me.LOL
I like you David and i guess i am just the jelous type and am having an outburst because you are showing more love to another.
I understand you position here but new comers may not and if you are always looking after the interest of a few it could be seen as favoritisum. I dont expect in the forums you should not be your self and have your veiws but do feel with other aspects of this site your need to put equal slices of the cake out for all at the party.
You have some weight here on the site and I hope you continue to use it in a way that you consider the outcome of your actions.
If someone is being Attacked here or bullied by a few people it is a good time for you to either stay out of it al together or (as you have done for me before) remind the attackers that a bit of respect now needs to take place.
David this is your site remember , we support you and I for one do have great respect for you but it does not help if you join in on the attack or show support for the attackers.
I have meet many people that say they dont come here due to run ins with you . There has even been a website as you know that some fool has set up just to attack you. Where2sling being an example.
I for one support you and am proud to do so but feel you need to stop judging.
Not long ago I asked about the number of visits this site get as a customer ( Venue Manager ) was intertested .
You took the veiws that the Manager was a fool and had no idear about websites and then went on to call him names and so on.
I feel it was a fair question yet you got defensive about the whole thing.I also asked about me purchasing bulk subsciption to give to Some loyal singers that can not afford to be part of this site and again you took a negitive veiw on my intentsions. I was just trying to get more singers too come here and was prpard to paid up to $500.00 to do so as a good will thing for my singers that wish to be a part of this but can not afford to. I have also asked about the banners of your I have in storage from the CARE-A-OKE night and ask you if you wanted me to display one in my venue and also was happy to take one over to over host for there venue so they could also display the W2S brand . Nothing is happening with that either.
Yes I have had a few new singers come to my shows that found the gig on this site but also introduced many sing to come to this site. the balance is about the same. This site has found me singers and also has lost me singer again the balance about the same. Parts of this site I feel needs balance are . Recent gig comments( sometimes the same host is listed as every second entry and althought this host has many gigs so the percentage many be higher out of say 500 gigs in OZ there is no reason why they should dominate the area. One week the same venue was listed twice. I just dont see the balance, Front page again a lending towards this host gigs.. In forums of late it would seam you go into bat for this person so much that your bat is starting to show signs of wairing.
Do get me wrong this person I like a lot and resect he is not only leading the way but also shares his knowledge and supports all others . Top bloke Fair and equal. you could also learn from some of his ways.

David I am not going anywhere in a hurry and hope you understand I do enjoy your support here.

Thanks Mike


Submitted by Mike- Rophone on 30-05-2008

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